https://www.quora.com/Why-did-the-narcissist-just-use-me/answer/Katherine-Michelle-40
I am a malignant narcissist. What happens is that the narcissist us using you for what’s called narcissistic supply. This is alexithymia that makes us place out language and emotions into your language. This is what makes you an extension of the narcissist.
All of our narcissism is cycled through you for it to be renewed. We do not have to be narcissistic when you are able to with emotions that we don’t have. This is why we would mimic you as well.
We have no emotions. You do though. This is where we get our supply through your emotions based on our language. We lack empathy. This causes for having a high opinion of yourself so this means we would have to use you as a means to get what it is that we want from you.
We are only loaning you our language. We future fake because we like to tell you about our grandiose fantasies so you hear them. This makes you start having them as well. We did not truly intend to include you in those. We only wanted to hear ourselves talking about these things.
It is common for us to talk over you. What do you think that means? We talk over and at you but not to you. I figured you wanted me to talk that much to you. My bad, it went too far…