給他人台階下，是一個人頂級的智慧
http://www.thevalue101.com/article.php?id=64449 自己主動給對方台階下，說明你為對方做的事並不是特別費功夫或者也就是順手一做，自己主動減輕對方的心理壓力，無疑更讓對方舒服。
Do narcissists end any relationships themselves?
https://qr.ae/pNbRmV Todd Skyler Litigated cases in which aspects of NPD and BPD impacted subject matter of disputed legal issues, secured psychologists and psychiatrists discovery depositions in prep for same. ==============…
Banyan tree roots
Banyan, (Ficus benghalensis), also called Indian banyan or banyan fig, unusually shaped tree of the mulberry family (Moraceae) native to the Indian subcontinent. The banyan reaches a height up to…
有一種高級的情商，叫“乾脆利落”
http://www.rts36.com/article.php?id=63230 太宰治在《人間失格》中說： “我的不幸，在於我缺乏拒絕的能力。 我害怕一旦拒絕別人，就會在彼此心裡留下難以癒合的裂痕。” “拒絕”二字，說出來就帶著一股冷漠和絕情的意味。 直接拒絕對方的人，也會被扣上“情商低”、“不會好好說話”的帽子。 久而久之，“委婉拒絕”成了成年人心照不宣的社交規則。
Karen O & Willie Nelson Cover Bowie & Queen’s “Under Pressure”
Today, Karen O and Willie Nelson unveiled their cover of the iconic David Bowie and Queen classic “Under Pressure.” Thematically, it’s a song for our pressure-filled times. But this version…
好的感情，一定會談錢
http://www.thevalue101.com/article.php?id=64030 想要看清一個男人，和他談錢就是了。同樣的，想要判斷一個女人是否真的愛你，談錢也是沒錯的。 好的感情，會自然而然談到錢，而經不起考驗的感情，才會繞開這個話題，能躲就躲，能藏就藏，實在扛不住了，就由此開撕，最終，漸行漸遠，徒留懊悔。
How to Speak: Watch the Lecture on Effective Communication That Became an MIT Tradition for Over 40 Years
https://www.openculture.com/2020/10/how-to-speak-mit-lecture.html In his legendary MIT lecture “How to Speak,” professor Patrick Winston opens with a story about seeing Olympic gymnast Mary Lou Retton at a Celebrity Ski Weekend. It was…