Bob Allen · March 19Studies Medicine (DO) & Biomedical Science (Expected 2022)
There’s some common phrases they use, but I just want to point out one distinction:
A narcissist can use any phrase you use, but context matters
A narcissist will instigate you and then complain about you pushing their boundaries when you chew them out for their bullshit (johnny depp)
A narcissist will future fake and then act like a victim when you expect them to act on their implied promises to you
A narcissist will say they want a long term relationship but whenever you ask nicely for your needs to be met you will be responded to with gaslighting lines like “you’re just using me for sex” when you’ve met their needs all week or month and then some.
Beyond that, let’s put some common ones, then some ones I’ve heard recently:
“I’m sorry you feel that way”— terminate any relationship immediately if you hear this one
“I want unconditional love”
“No expectations”
“I want it to be natural”
“You’re so needy/insecure”
“You give to get”
“no one understands me”
“Things would have been different if I had XYZ”
“All my exes are crazy”
“Everybody…” Or “nobody…..” lines, this is black and white thinking