Yes of course. You are the love of their life. A narcissist will not only be overly attentive in the beginning stages but will make sure to:
- photocopy your character. Difficult to understand but they produce your own photocopy in an incredible manner. So you instantly think that you just met your soul mate. Truth is the soul mate is straight from hell and so evil in nature.
- Copy your likes and dislikes. So if you like adventure, the narcissist will say that too. Some will even copy your likes of ice cream. Incredible the level of fakeness – no?
- They will invent a very special pet name for you. Just to show you how much you blow their minds with happiness. When reality is that the narcissist is rubbing his/her hands as probability of success of just another victim is near.
- Intimacy is top of the priority list of the narcissist. Intimacy as in sex, intimacy as in number of phone calls, messages, flowers, presents. Just enough to blow your mind with happy chemicals that makes your head in fake delirium.
- when my sons were being love bombed by their narcissist father, he even went to great lengths to invent a language between them so that when my sons are with me, I am unable to read the messages. I relate this just to show you the extremity of effort that a narcissist will put in the love bombing stage.
I am sure that other victims of narcissists can make an endless list of love bombing tactics too.
Would you not say that this kind of acting is a bit too human? How do they learn all this?