Today’s email is a throwback to one of our greatest hits, originally sent July 26, 2023. Enjoy 🙂
Today, we’re finally going to crack open the murky, misunderstood topic of…
(deep breath…)
“Spirituality”
A loaded term, I know.
But only because it means so many different things to so many different people.
So let’s give it a clear, simple, universal definition:
“Spirituality” is the measure of how smoothly “spirit” — aka. universal intelligence, God, Tao, nature, whatever name you prefer — runs through our system, unobstructed by ego.
Imagine a hose with a stream of water running through it.
The hose is ego; you as you view yourself, separate from everything else.
The water is spirit; the universal intelligence that creates and organizes reality.
If the hose is kinked, blocked, clogged, or otherwise obstructed — less water flows through it, which means less spirit flows through you.
Doesn’t matter if you wear white robes, recite fancy mantras, never miss a day of church, memorize the Tao Te Ching and the Bible, and can touch your toes to your ears during hot yoga.
None of that becomes “spiritual” until spirit actually moves through your system while you do it.
Which is no small ask, because the ego is a tricky beast.
The trickiest, in fact.
Here’s a short list of how we block spirit with our ego:
– Thinking of ourselves as “spiritual”
– Thinking of ourselves as important / special
– Rigidly defending our beliefs
– Mistaking personal beliefs and opinions as facts
– Repressing uncomfortable emotions
– Trying to look good in the eyes of others
– Trying to improve ourselves
– Taking things personally
– Comparing ourselves to others
– Wishing ill on others
– Getting attached to material things
– Getting attached to specific outcomes
– Thinking of ourselves as separate from everything else
– Wanting to be “more spiritual” (hint: the thing that wants it is the thing that is blocking it)
And, especially:
– Not being completely and utterly and constantly in awe of the sheer, dazzling beauty of reality.
And that’s just a short list.
We could be here for days listing the ways our ego cuts our spiritual legs out from under us.
There is a lot more to say on this topic, like:
– How ego is not the enemy; an under-developed ego that can’t let go is the enemy.
– How spirituality is not about love and light and angels and heaven, it’s about everything (nothing is not God).
– How the spiritual journey is not about becoming “better” (which is just another an ego game) — it’s about becoming what you most naturally are.
But those are stories for another day 🙂
Let me know if you’d like to go deeper…
– T
P.S. Let’s wrap with a few of my favorite quotes on spirituality…
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“There is no believing in God. You either know him or you don’t.” – Shantaram
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“The angels can fly because they take themselves lightly.” – G.K. Chesterton
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“I maintain that cosmic religious feeling is the strongest and noblest motive for scientific research.” – Albert Einstein
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“All religions are true but none are literal.” – Joseph Campbell
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“Do not seek the Buddha, seek what the Buddha sought.” – Richard Hooper
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“Real religion is the transformation of anxiety into laughter.” – Alan Watts