When they are on the prowl, most narcissists are selective about what they are willing to divulge to their prospective significant others.
Even though narcissists likely have had, substantially the same or very similar contentious issues, arise in the majority of their successive interpersonal relationships, they nonetheless have a tendency to not discuss said issues.
One can imagine how if their roles were reversed, most narcissist relationship partners would not be very forgiving if they found their prospective significant others had withheld any relevant information whatsoever.
During the courting phase, narcissists likely do not discuss any one or more of following:
They find it particularly difficult to allow themselves to experience and/or express matters concerning emotionally vulnerability.
Each of their relationships had a similar trajectory — idealize, devalue, discard.
They are prone to become uncomfortable and/or put off when they experience feelings of adult intimacy
They have profound issues when it comes to trusting other people.
In each of their relationships, when interpersonal relationship conflicts arose, they devalued their significant others.
They presume most people have bad intentions
They believe most people will eventually betray them.
They find the notion of of emotional attachment as neither desirable nor something they may very well be capable of.
Due to a profound fear of being alone, vulnerable, or stranded without the equivalent of a self-esteem regulation life preserver, they will be inclined to spend a great deal of emotional energy devoted to procuring “side-sneak” or replacement supply.
